How do we grow? Check out this thought from one of favorites: Peter Senge.
“The juxaposition of vision (what we want) and a clear picture of our current reality (where we are relative to what we want) generates what we call ‘creative tension’: a force to bring them together, caused by the natural tendency of tension to seek resolution. The essence of personal mastery is learning how to generate and sustain creative tension in our lives.”
– The Fifth Discipline